Thank you so much, that makes complete sense

Usually we just talk about life and whatever. I reconnected with him after finding his profile online after he messaged me.

He calls me one and he’s nice to me, so possibly

Definitely not. Even if I thought he was annoying due to his autism and such, I grew up and it’s definitely not his fault how I chose to react to his autism

I’m straight

I mean, I’ve talked to him in high school about how he was so annoying and I defended people who bullied him, but since then, we haven’t talked about that. I don’t like engaging in deep discussion, unfortunately

Not trans but Feliz is obviously not my real name

What exactly did the dysphoria feel like?

Yeahhh, hopefully we can still be friends

Thank you 🙂

I’m sure it will. I’m now friends with the girl I bullied in high school, who is a trans man now.

She said we probably wouldn’t talk for a while and she needs to process things, but she understands

Thanks! This resonated with me

Like, a year and a half. I used to like people for personality. I thought I did, but I only like the personality of a man. That is to say, I thought I didn’t care about gender and just liked personality, but in reality, I only like men and don’t care about appearance of men.

It was very good, thanks so much. She said we probably wouldn’t talk for a while as she processes the breakup

Thanks so much.

Thank you! Maybe,

Hey, L,

I know you’re probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it’s good that you’re finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I’m straight. I’m, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I’m sorry, it’s just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I’m not interested in women and I can’t keep dating someone and lying about how I feel. Remember that as you continue your journey, though, I’ll be here as your friend to support you.

I hope you understand, E 🙂

Hey, L,

I know you’re probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it’s good that you’re finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I’m straight. I’m, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I’m sorry, it’s just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I’m not interested in women and I can’t keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

I hope you understand, E 🙂

I wrote:

Hey, L,

I know you’re probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it’s good that you’re finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I’m straight. I’m, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I’m sorry, it’s just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I’m not interested in women and I can’t keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

I hope you understand, E 🙂

Thank you. I’ll try to be gentle