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Cake day: June 5th, 2025

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  • It’s a tradeoff, as you say. Use the platforms and services you are comfortable with. Sacrifice privacy/security for convenience where you must. Your needs; your choice. It’s really individual.

    Consider running both untrusted and trusted applications concurrently, where the untrusted one cound run in a sandbox, for peace of mind. Drop it once you feel you don’t need it any more.

    Self-censor in forums you don’t feel safe in.

    Consider hanging out more in places with less surveilance, if you are not comfortable.

    It’s kind of a question of reducing your foot print, not completely eliminating it. Unless you wanna be a hermit.









  • Take the initiative and reach out. He will apreciate that if he is also interested.

    “Wanna hang out at my place tonight? I have snacks and movies.”

    Give some forewarning so he has some time to hop in the shower and what not.

    If he says yes, great. If he says “how about friday?” Great. If he says “nah”, oh well.

    From your description I can’t tell if this is just about having sex and no more. Good luck though.