I (18F) have a sister (14F) who I love a lot, but I don’t know how to help her. She thinks I’m always mad at her or that I hate her.
She’s very sensitive to tone, so she assumed that if something isn’t said in the way she wants, that they want her to leave and DESPISE her.
She also tends to think if you don’t absolutely approve of her and love everything she does, that you hate her. She has tried sabotaging many friendships under the belief that they hate her and want to abandon her. She goes from thinking they’re wonderful to thinking they’re terrible people very quickly.
I must add she also tries to manipulate situations to get people in trouble, then gets mad when they get mad at her for getting them in trouble. She asks if they hate her and thinks she was just randomly hated for no reason.
Oh my gosh :(