I’m not really into trans people, so I only date cis men. Not trans men, not nonbinary people, and not women of any kind. However, my former boyfriend is now my girlfriend, and IDK how to tell her I don’t like women without her taking it the wrong way.

I wrote:

Hey, L,

I know you’re probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it’s good that you’re finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I’m straight. I’m, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I’m sorry, it’s just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I’m not interested in women and I can’t keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

I hope you understand, E 🙂

    • LaLuzDelSol@lemmy.worldEnglish
      8·
      9 months ago

      Also kinda surprised she didn’t bring it up either? Like, “btw I’m transitioning, what does that mean for us?”

      • FelizTheCatBannedOPEnglish
        7·
        9 months ago

        I told her I would still love her and try to be there, she kinda hinted when she said “would you still love me if I was a woman” but I realized I don’t like women romantically much