So I’ve been trying to figure out my sexuality and what sort of stuff I like, and I’ve stumbled upon a bit of a roadblock; I just don’t find vaginas or dicks that attractive. If I’m watching some porn or whatever and they zoom in to people’s junk, that’s a bit of a turn off. Honestly they just look like messy meat to me.

So I figured I’d ask; do you like dick/vagina pics? How much does it matter for how attractive you find someone?

… And you know what, since I’m asking things, shaven or unshaven?

  • FoxyGrandpa@lemmy.worldEnglish
    12·
    4 months ago

    Firstly, unshaven everytime. Secondly, I (straight man) don’t find genitals in and of themselves attractive generally. When watching pornography I’m more attracted to the whole of a woman (no pun intended). Her face, her body, her vibe all play a role into it. And thats just porn, in person requires a novel of an explanation

    • The_Worst@feddit.nlEnglish
      6·
      4 months ago

      For me a gay man it’s the same but for men of course. Penises aren’t attractive. I find men in underwear way more exciting.

      Trimmed or shaven. At least maintained.

      • GBU_28@lemm.eeEnglish
        7·
        4 months ago

        Nobody wants their partner to look like one of those yards YouTubers mow for free

    • occhionaut@lemmy.worldEnglish
      1·
      3 months ago

      Agreed. If it looks like the lady is forcing a moan against pain or discomfort then im immediately turned off. It goes for men too, but i haven’t seen a specific porn example of that. Sex should not be uncomfortable!!