It makes me sad a bit, because it sort of indicates a lack of connection to local community. I don’t think you can navigate irl queer community without running into some queer commie who doesn’t care about tone, or some enby chaos gremlin who likes to have fun.
It may not be your vibe, but if you can’t even contextualize what’s happening here, it’s a bit of a tell.
It makes me sad a bit, because it sort of indicates a lack of connection to local community. I don’t think you can navigate irl queer community without running into some queer commie who doesn’t care about tone, or some enby chaos gremlin who likes to have fun.
It may not be your vibe, but if you can’t even contextualize what’s happening here, it’s a bit of a tell.