My relationship with my body is bit of a rollercoaster, I will live my body and dislike it for being too skinny etc. I am slowly but surely starting to like my body more which one way is fashion which is wearing shorter shorts.
I think also I have a bad habit of conparing jorks/beefy men from porn and wish I have that body as well.
I guess you could try to compare to people you see from day to day as opposed to people in some form of media, they’re always going to be better than average.
Me though? I’m a short, balding, pale, hairy dude approaching 40. When I look in a mirror I just laugh now and say “god I didn’t miss a single branch when I fell out of the ugly tree.” I just accept that I’m really ugly as opposed to try to feel better about my appearance lol