PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netBanned to menby@hexbear.netEnglish · 4 months ago

Biphobia against men discourse popping tf off on Twitter today (CW: Homophobia)

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Biphobia against men discourse popping tf off on Twitter today (CW: Homophobia)

PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.netBanned to menby@hexbear.netEnglish · 4 months ago

Honestly, I’m here for it. The biphobic stuff I would hear from women kept me in the closet for a long time

https://xcancel.com/guywhoiswoke/status/1871313546266759389

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Is it something to do the first statistic using “man” and the second “person”?
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  Men are a subset of people, so there’s no reason why opening up the category would restrict the % of women who would date within it.

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