I’m seriously considering a name change, both first and last name. But I thought about it and I don’t want to deal with the massive paperwork issues, especially when it comes to citizenship papers and fact that I got citizenship status derived from my mother’s naturalization. I’m not sure if a name change would cause troubles.

Should I do it just for spite?

    • ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.comEnglish
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      14 days ago

      Why punish yourself by not allowing yourself to have a family to attempt to hurt your father? Why not change your name is make sure your family ends the toxicity :)