• njm1314@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Are you implying that in public restrooms people share the same stall?

    Also the strangers thing ain’t exactly solved by having one gender bathroom is it? So that seems like a moot point to me.

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        2 days ago

        In the scenario I described to you trans people are much more comfortable than have 2 sex bathrooms.

        A single sex bathroom means there is no choice that need to be made. They do not have to present as anything, nor be judged as anything. It is simply a person in a public room, and a private room for the private time.

        It also means (as I described it) the sharing of the hand washing mirror facilities are barely different than being in the hallway. Do people share hallways? Of course. So this open to the public space adds a level of protection.

        Then for the private space it is single use. One person.

        I feel like I am having a hard time getting this across, and I don’t know why.

        • Lka1988@sh.itjust.works
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          I feel like I am having a hard time getting this across, and I don’t know why.

          Because they’re just moving the goalposts until you “slip” and say something that confirms their biases against you. Being “right” is never the goal.