(i decided to post this on a throwaway)
I knew a lady. She was friends with my friends. she would talk to me sometimes and give mixed signals. She would be nice to me and then be a total dick.
She would say she liked me and wanted to be my friend but would be very rude and “curt” i guess is the word.
A few days ago, she invited me to her house. she pushed me onto her bed. She told me to take off my clothes.
She said she’d do it for me if i refused. I said no and she said my opinion didn’t matter because i had autism and was less than human.
She hit me and punched me multiple times. She tried to put her hands on my neck and i tried to push her off. She threw her body on me and tried to pin me down.
“Why do you care about me?” she asked. “There are so many people you could focus on, why me?? please be honest.”
I told her I cared about everyone and that i wanted friends, that i found people to be interesting. i told her if she wished, i’d never speak to her again.
She let go of me after a bit, and her mother called her to do something for her and i got all my stuff.
I left the damn house and RAN. She couldn’t do much because she was doing something for her mom so i could leave.
People call her a great lady. People say she loves me, that she’s amazing.
I can’t forgive her. She said i did nothing wrong and that i was just a “stupid little pup” for asking what possessed her to do that.
I truly hate her but my friend calls her a fantastic and even pretty woman. She told me if i ever told anyone, she would slit my throat.
I’m sorry this happened. Stay away from this lunatic, file a restraining order if you need to.
Thank you. She and her friend hurt me every single day because of it, but sometimes her friend will be okay. They say I’m their dog and that disabled rights don’t matter. My friend defends her behavior.
I fucking hate her. I never want to see her again. I’d rather die than talk to her or experience anything with her and her friend who belong in jail.
She told me I deserved to be beaten. Her friend was obsessed with me. She is now too.
Please do not associate with these people. And please contact the authorities? (assuming you live in a relatively safe place and aren’t marginalized) Speak to your family.
That is not okay behaviour (and you did nothing wrong).
They also say I didn’t. Thank you so much, I will contact authorities and cut all contact with the two women
Good.
Take care of yourself. Don’t allow ANYONE to abuse you, if you can help it. And if you can’t, get help.
She was either severely abused as a child, is schizophrenic/borderline, or both. Avoid her. People present different “faces” to everyone in their lives, even you. Think about it. You don’t behave around your family in the same way as your friends. At least, most people don’t. To other people, she IS a good person. That’s the “face” she showed them. They’ve never seen the “face” you saw.
Not saying you’re wrong, but you know who she is to YOU. And that is dangerous.
If she’s that violent, and threatening to you, I’d report it. She may kill someone, some day.
Stay far, far away, and don’t engage her in any way.
