I don’t know where to put this.
I’m a bicurious/hetero young white woman with Christian white parents. My dad found out I support gay rights despite identifying as straight. He didn’t really like that I have a Hispanic fiancé (he was okay with it, but he was like “you could do better, come on.”)
He called me a “leftist lib” because I support interracial marriages, gay marriages, trans rights, etc. How can you use supporting these things an insult though??
I also really want acceptance as someone who is neurodivergent and has seen neurodivergent people and minorities be bullied/discriminated against and also has been bullied themself.
Tell him to read John 7
“Judge not, that you be not judged. 2 For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged. And with the measure you use, it will be measured again for you.
3 “And why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the log that is in your own eye?"
Then remind him that Christ voluntarily hung out with whores, tax collectors, thieves, and societies, dregs and rejects. This wasn’t someone who buddy buddied with the leaders of the church but actively questioned the authority of them and defamed them.
If you want a real argument, tell him he should stop worshiping Paul and start worshiping Jesus.