• southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    6 days ago

    I get it. It’s never a pleasant thing to have a misunderstanding come to the worse end of possible outcomes. Given enough time, I hope that it can turn back around and resolve into a mutually acceptable and friendly outcome.

    Hey, it took me months to wrap my head around things and figure out my own internal quirks, and we didn’t have any kind of event to make either of us question trust. It might take longer, even much longer, but I still don’t think there was any ill intent on either side, so it should work out eventually. Give it time, stay optimistic.

    • Dragon Rider (drag)@lemmy.nz
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      6 days ago

      Thank you, but drag thinks you’re wrong. Drag doesn’t think Ada is the forgiving type. The mistake drag made that lead to getting banned was trusting Ada would keep her promise. Like drag said, drag learned from it. No more trusting Ada.

      Drag recognises that’s not a good foundation for reconciliation. But that’s what it feels like Ada was trying to teach drag with the ban. How else is drag supposed to interpret that?

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        6 days ago

        Are we really going to discuss such personal issues in public without the other person present? To me this seems unprompted and very unethical.

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          5 days ago

          Drag can’t discuss it with Ada. Drag’s banned. You can invite her to this conversation if you like. It would work if you messaged her

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            5 days ago

            That doesn’t make it right to discuss it here. It’s the fediverse, why do you care if you’re banned? Just make an account somewhere else