Obviously like the other questions like this say, it’s not a diagnosis. Plus, this guy refuses help, but I know it’s surely something his behavior indicates.
According to my fiancé, he:
sensitive content
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engages in risky behaviors (like self-harm)
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explosive fits of anger
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fits of depression
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fears abandonment
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abusive and controlling behavior (beats people up, doesn’t want his family talking to others, scared his wife will cheat on him)
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hears voices in his head telling him to kill loved ones
+1 to BPD. Lines up the best from my perspective.
+1 from me too.