It means they’re having bareback sex and the man orgasms while inside her.

It should not be tolerated at the workplace. I’m forced to listen to this rhetoric because my shift isn’t done yet, and I can’t leave without getting fired. I’m forced into a sexual discussion without consent, and it’s so graphically disgusting that I feel nauseous.

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    You’re a gay man with the same level of prudishness that makes conservatives not even want to allow you to be able to hold hands in public with your partner.

    Congratulations on the unpopular opinion, but your levels of self-awareness need A LOT of work.

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    You are definitionally wrong. A graphic description means, “Describing or depicting in vivid and realistic detail.” Saying, “We’re trying for a baby,” would be considered euphemistically sexual at best. A graphically sexual description would be something like, I don’t know…“having bareback sex and the man orgasms while inside her.”

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    “I put a thick load in my wife last night”

    “My husband cums inside me all the time now”

    I think these are way worse

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        Yes, but usually people share this with only close ones and not publicly. I think it is okay to be gross with close people.

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    Grow up love, your dad shot a fucking red hot load into your mum and thats why you’re here. 21st century ridiculousness. Very unpopular opinion have an upvote.

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    OP is definitely a virgin, and very likely an incel. Also a high chance that OP is gay. It’s okay, you can come out of the closet.

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      OP mentions being gay and sexually active in comments from over a day ago. So you’re kinda 0 for 3, since I don’t think accusing an out gay person of being closeted counts as accurate.

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    Graphic ? meaning you’re picturing it mentally ? that’s you lacking control over your own brain

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    It’s a euphemism designed to avoid explicit detail. You should be thankful for the phrase.

    Also, it’s one of the most natural things imaginable, maybe work on understanding your own sensitivity rather than bringing other people down for being human.

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      By OP’s logic, you shouldn’t be able to tell anyone you are pregnant or that you have children because that eludes to the fact that at one point you’ve had sex. Next HR is going to remove the bathrooms from the office, because it assumes that people are pissing somewhere.

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        You probably also shouldn’t mention that you have a mother or a father because that forces OP to picture your parents doing the deed to make you. Same goes for siblings and grandparents.

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      I agree, knowing other people have sex is absolutely fine, in fact I assume it as default for basically any adult in a relationship. Not using protection may be unwise in almost all cases, but trying for a baby with a partner is the main exception, and it’s never been gross.

      I understand that a lot of people have been raised with shame, and I feel a certain pity for them, but I’m not a fan of treating this shame as righteous.

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    This is a truly US level of being uncomfortable with the basic fact of life.

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    I am very happy to see, reading the responses, that this is indeed an unpopular opinion. You sound quite squeamish and prudish. The couple is already presumably having sex, why in the world does it bother you that they acknowledge (with a completely not graphic euphemistic comment) that they want a baby? It’s not a sexual comment.

    Upvoted for unpopularity.

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      I think it’s a common opinion in childfree circles. anything to dunk on “natalists”.

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    “I’m going to the bathroom” is sexually graphic, and disgusting.

    It means ejecting urine and or feces from the body and it finishes in the toilet.

    It should not be tolerated at the workplace. I’m forced to listen to this rhetoric because my shift isn’t done yet, and I can’t leave without getting fired. I’m forced into a sexual discussion without consent, and it’s so graphically disgusting that I feel nauseous.

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    Bro, how do you think human life works? This is natural, sorry you are sensitive by very tame terminology. Perhaps you should talk to someone about why a necessary natural process causes you so much turmoil. I get that this is a workplace but is it too much to ask to allow for some personal freedom rather than sitting quietly working as a bot all day for your corporate overlords?

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      Based on the name of the community and the responses I’ve seen here, this is exactly the right place for this opinion.

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    The phrase “we’re trying for a baby” communicates the intent to start a family without eliciting unwanted images of raw dog cream pies. That is why we use it. If you are having these thoughts about your coworkers from this phrase, I submit that you are the problem.