Have you ever had your orgasms controlled by a partner? How did they exercise control and what was your experience of it like?
I had a partner who was really into that kind of stuff. Basically they wanted to “train” me to cum on command. That involved a fuckton of edging, ruined orgasms and blue balls. But it was worth it when we got to the point where I could be brought right to the edge, and if they snapped their fingers I would shoot my load and if they didn’t, I would not. It was incredibly hot.
The ultimate goal/fantasy was to me to have a fully touch free orgasm where they would just start counting down and upon reaching zero they would snap their fingers and then I would shoot. I dunno if it’s actually possible to archive something like that. I was getting good at holding back until the snap, but getting close to the edge in the first place without physical stimulation was still impossible for me.
I was a little worried how this kind of “conditioning” could affect possible future relationships. After that relationship ended, cumming normally did feel weird somehow and more like a ruined orgasm but luckily things returned to normal after a month or two.
I’ve been the controller
I’m a pleasure-Dom, so I take great delight in giving pleasure, but obviously a huge part of that is being able to control it
This year I have been subjecting one of my wives to orgasm denial, under threat of intense application of her shock collar. She has been allowed three or four total, on special occasions. She has been loving it. It has left her constantly horny and she says it has been the best sex of her life. She is on day fifty of her current streak, and I am intending to extend it to a full year. When her chastity belt arrives I am eager to figure out the best way to fit it with a remote vibrator, so I can tease her at will.
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A FWB put me in chastity from time to time and played with my remote vibrator for a couple hours, no matter how desperate and needy I got. Sometimes she let me out, sometimes I had to keep it on and wait for the next time. When she let me out, immediately after she told me when to start and stop touching myself, this also took up to 30 minutes now and then.
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I was not allowed to cum until she said so. When I failed, I had to get back into the cage immediately, and only got teased with the cage on for the next days. Not only was I conditioned to only cum on her command after a couple weeks, but it also made me extremely obedient. I was also very bratty back then, that changed over the time of training…
@Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine @asklemmynsfw well, I wanted to try with one of my kinky partners, but she ended up having no patience for it unfortunately.
