It seems to me that anything short of high fem (which isn’t really my thing) is interpreted as “man” on me since I’m amab. Does anybody have some suggestions of hairstyles, clothes, accessories, etc that hit that sweet spot in between? I really want to give off queer tomboy energy, but the mirror is disappointing. :/
I think I get the vibe you’re going for. I have a selection of colorful oversized shirts and t-shirts that I think do a decent job (a lot of tie dye). That kind of fit helps to obscure my body type a bit since most tops fit me very tight in the shoulders and chest. Other than that I sometimes paint my nails random colours and generally keep my hair on the longer side. More than anything else I think the neon green nails make it hard for people to just assume “man”, and it doesn’t necessarily have to look super girly either.
try out a binder and other trans masc things. potentially go for chaotic trans masc energy and also go with some makeup?
