So it seems to be rampant on Snapchat, the misogyny and right-wing politics. One video had a woman who decided not to have sex or kids with her husband and some person commented how it was typical of a modern woman not to want to make a baby for the family. This user also commented really bigoted stuff with trans and intersex people. It also gives pick me vibes since apparently this commenter was a woman.
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You should forget that this thing even exists.
Sounds like an incel/misogynist pretending to be a woman or a lady who’s “not like other women”
I can’t comment on your being stupid or not based only on this post.
However, you aren’t mistaken about the misogyny of that concept
I think it’s important for spouses to communicate to each other their expectations for intimacy and the potential for having children… before getting married. It’s one thing if a woman is up front about her abstinence and child-free wishes, but to spring that on her husband after they’re already married is pretty shitty behavior.
That being said, yes that “typical of modern women” garbage is misogyny, whether it’s coming from a man or a woman.
I advise you get off snapchat and other engagement-bait-driven social media such as instagram, tiktok, X, etc. They’re the brainrot that accuses everything woke of being brainrot.
I mean. I don’t really get a realtionship without sex for no reason (like I understand medical and such). I mean thats just being roommates.
The social-forces of the world are competing for dominance, now.
If you’ve ever seen a video of cell-mitosis, after the asters go to the cell’s poles ( for lack of a better name ), they pull-apart the cell’s DNA to those 2 poles.
Something similar is happening with humankind, right now.
At the deepest level, it is simply the division between people who want a return to animal-reacting “grace”, without moral-anxiety/difficult-thinking, vs the people who’re willing to adapt-to addiction-to-understanding & lots of considered-reasoning.
https://www.kobo.com/us/en/ebook/thinking-fast-and-slow is THE book to understand that level of what’s going on.
Above that level is the level of ideologies/prejudices/politics/“religions” fighting for exclusive regional-dominion & world-dominion.
Different platforms are becoming exclusively-1-culture/ideology or exclusively-another, in this level.
By the early 2030’s, countries will have become completely-owned by specific ideologies/prejudices.
It’s not at that level of polarization, yet.
The book “The Big Sort” is about the US’s sorting itself into ideological-polarized counties, with the minorities moving-out, left and right.
The world’s doing the same thing, now, before the total tantrum/pogrom of humankind’s ideological deathmatch, to find out who “wins” the world.
This is species-“puberty” that is unfolding, this century.
The stages of this include the yin-stages, which are about to completely-finish, & the yang-stages, the 1st of which ( Regional Consolidation ) is about to begin, shortly.
Once it does, expect Trump to launch wars of annexation against Canada, Greenland ( he needs Greenland to enforce Canada’s annexation: to sever Canada’s EU-lifeline ), Cuba, Venezuela, Mexico, Panama, etc, etc, etc.
He’ll simply use the de-naturalization law that he’s got in-place, but hasn’t touched, to legally make all non-Republicans into “illegals”, making them the legal property of ICE, once he’s invoked the Insurrection Act, or whatever equivalent he’s decided to use, for the complete-removal of accountability & limits to his power/dictatorship.
The 2nd yang-stage begins in the early 2030’s, & continues until the food-chain(s) die, which should be decades.
Now that the context for the ideological-rabies you’re seeing is sketched-out, understand that misogyny is THE gateway-drug of fascism.
Religious-fascism ( including christofascism ), secular-fascism, communist-party-fascism ( collective-fascism ), etc.
Cult-of-identity, eradication-of-diversity, eradication of considered-reasoning, authoritarianism, etc, the whole thing, is the mechanism that fascism embodies.
I don’t accept the established-view that it isn’t fascism when a party/group/collective is doing it: if it’s fundamentally the same thing, then fundamentally it’s the same thing: so keep the name the same, & just identify what’s changed/different, instead of pretending that a different “category” of thing is going on, when it’s the same mechanism.
Here is the proof that misogyny is the gateway-drug of fascism: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/1369118X.2024.2445637#abstract
As psychologist Susan Pinker noted, in Scandinavia, where women have the most freedom to choose their own career, women & men choose drastically different careers from men: usually people-centered.
I’ve spoken with a few former-soviets, & women worked in “male” ( male-culture ) careers, not because they wanted to, but because they weren’t allowed to work in what they wanted to be working in.
So the communist position that lots of female-engineers is “proof” of how good it is, is contradicted by the evidence that Susan Pinker presented, in her book “The Sexual Paradox”.
Anyways, unless people create platforms ( Fediverse, obviously ) which compete against the mainstream-platforms which are being ideologically-highjacked, then that-category-of-platform ( images, videos, twitter-replacement, reddit-replacement, whatever ) won’t exist for people outside of that ideology, shortly: the polarization’s accelerating, & is going to continue accelerating, until absolute-polarization’s locked-in.
That’ll mean balkanization of the Fediverse, fersure, but it’ll mean that unless people get putting-up servers for the types of services which compete with the different platforms that the mainstream-oligarchy owns, then the real communities are going to simply get used to not having that dimension of “space”, soon.
Exactly as Twitter/X got toxic, quick, all of them are going to, shortly, as standing with Palestinians is outright illegal in England, right now, that kind of shit will be normal, globally, & anybody standing-with women in the christofascist territories, is going to be deemed “terrorist”, soon.
Yes, the world is “losing its mind”, & it’s natural, in this division-between-poles process that world-“puberty” is: it’s The Great Filter, which either nearly-no humankind will survive, XOR no humankind will survive ( simply because humankind’s intentional-ignorance is the actual-enemy, & it’s … unbelievably-immense ).
TL;DR, you aren’t wrong, it’s the world losing its mind, in a perfectly-natural process, in which the vast majority of the world fights-off correct-thinking for sake of ideological-reacting, & the tiny-minority stands-with/fights-for correct-reasoning/objectivity/worldview-evolution because growing-up is a fundamental-need.
The remnant of humankind, should there be any, will live into next-century, fundamentally-changed, & so therefore by nature incapable of being the ignorant-ideological-wingnuts that our-generation is.
hth,
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