sorry to post so much, but now im worried as hell. is it true what someone on reddit said? i’d take it with a grain of salt, but they said i’d be bad at both being a tutor and a barista, both jobs i wanna work at, due to my disability making it slow and that i’m not good enough and that they wouldn’t pay me to help their kids because i don’t know either skill inside and out. however, another person on lemmy said they were being a jerk and that you gain experience by working and watching others.
idk what to believe :( the lemmy user sounds reasonable and sensible, but idk, im worried im gonna be terrible in the working industry because i dont have much of a skillset for anything as im disabled and my memory and reflexes are wack and i cant talk well (i stutter and freeze sometimes) despite being more extroverted, and my disability makes it hard for me to do so many other things.
atp i won’t be able to get a job anywhere because im not fast enough or a good worker…
Flattery will get you everywhere. Work to your strength, extroversion. Be kind and sincere, and people will ignore the rest of the issues.
thank you so much! i am a people pleaser and a motivated worker, maybe that’ll get me somewhere
You do have the most worthy attribute: Motivation. I’m sure you can find your way in this world
i wont listen to a probably ableist redditor
Yea ignore the grumpy gatekeepers.
besides, everyone says im a fast worker at school and ive helped so many ppl who ask
thanks 🙏
thanks!!!
The 1st time I got work in construction, I knew NOTHING about what it felt like to work in a jobsite.
Everybody has their 1st-time when they try something new, right?
You only get good, by doing stuff, & learning.
not by sitting in a chair daydreaming about it.
Do well, & improve, & hopefully your karma will help you get better…
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