I have been told by this straight/bi girl who turned out to be quite racist (and homophobic, so she was likely but not definitely straight) so I stopped being her friend, but that’s beside the point, that “she was a lesbian too until she met her perfect boyfriend” and that I just hadn’t met my perfect guy yet. I am a lesbian. I’ve tried with guys and I only dated them because I felt bad for them and they seemed sweet. I’m more mature now than to date a man because I like the attention he gives me and feel bad, I an absolutely les (well i like enbies and women)

  • Peacock@lemmy.zip
    24·
    5 months ago

    “You’re not a lesbian? Well you just haven’t met the right woman yet.”

    The “logic” works both ways 😁

    • apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
      2·
      5 months ago

      Random tangent, but it tickled my brain a bit

      The phrase

      You’re not a lesbian∆ you just haven’t met the right person yet

      Can be read as either encouraging or disparaging of lesbianism depending on whether you replace the delta with a questionmark or a comma

      You’re not a lesbian? you just haven’t met the right person yet

      You’re not a lesbian, you just haven’t met the right person yet

  • Wendy
    13·
    5 months ago

    All the time by guys who wanted to “get some”.