Tell me if it’s just because she’s spoiled or there’s something else.

Context: So sometimes my cat(6yrs) spills her water because she dropped something like food in it, she wants food, or she wants something else. I have tried to pay attention to all these other things more proactively so she doesn’t think I am just fufilling her requests BECAUSE she messed with her water bowl. I thought we were doing good recently since she stopped. I also partially attributed it to the metal tilted bowl we got her.

Well we got a kitten(7mnths) and acclimated them slowly til they started to play through a door and then we put them together. They get along well. Recently I was putting the kitten in her pen for the night, she was wriggling and scratched a little, and my 6 year old cat charged over and scratched me up! She went straight for me. So we put them in separate pens, the adult has a bigger one obviously. The 6 year old has been knocking over her water bowl over and over. I get mad and scold her, take her water, take the bowl nothing is working. In case you were wondering yes we do let them out in the evenings, give them pets and play time. I clean the pens, beds and everything every few days. Litter boxes every 2 days.

Is this lady just being a brat because she’s in jail or what?