So my bf is looking for his first full time job. He kind of fucked up when he thought that he’s gonna get every job he applies to, because that’s what happened when he was looking for a part-time job (while studying). He still has a part-time job, as we obviously need 2 incomes (and since I am still at uni I only have a part-time job for now) and he is no lazy assss.

Just like many people here, he’s getting no responses, or he’s getting rejected. Today he god rejected from a job, that he had a 4 hour interview at on Monday. He was soooo excited because he really felt like it went well. I can see on him, how much it’s getting to him. I try to send him some offers I come across, he applies and it’s all the same story. M stepdad offered that he would help him in his insurance firm (we’re not in the US, so it’s mostly car,house,apartment or travel insurance), but he’s a bit nervous about working w his future father-in-law.

There’s not much I can do for him, I was in the same boat a year ago and I know how agonizing the rejections are. But still, does anyone have any tips/tricks to at least make my bfs mood better? Anything so I can make him happier. No “break up” advice - he’s no lazy bum that ain’t trying to find a job. I stand by him.

This really is recruiting hell - fck every recruiter that doesn’t at least send a fckn rejection email (yes I am talking to you, anonymous recruiter). Or a quick call. Basic decency is literally free.