hello friends
i have two cats (orange boy and tabby girl) and my family seems to all show preference for the tabby girl. she’s adorable and i love her, but as i’m not home for most of the year (studying across the country) so i sometimes wonder if my orange cat feels jealous or neglected.

not in terms of food or treats or anything, but he just doesn’t get as much love and attention as my girl cat. he seems to be fine but has been a lot more vocal ever since i got home (especially for pets and stuff), which is leading me to think he might feel neglected

am i overthinking this?