My cats 2 almost 3 years old. Hes my first and only cat and is a male, and as many as you know, they get sick because of their urinary tracks constantly… and mine is no exception, ive taken him to the vet multiple times now, when he first got sick about 4/5 months ago and discovered he had crystals in his bladder.

From before and until now that he got sick again (started peeing blood) he’s peed on me and my sister’s bed constantly, he stopped peeing on mine a bit ago since i started playing with him on my bed i assume and used some special cleaning stuff for it… but he hasnt stopped peeing on my sisters bed. After this past time he got sick (like almost 2 weeks ago) he’s been peeing on it almost DAILY, so by now my sister’s really really annoyed, with reason of course but… fuck- every vet visit is really expensive and im gaining less than minimum wage since im part time job and full time student. So im left with barely enough for anything else. And my family doesnt really like cats, but i absolutely adore then-

So theyre… Basically done with him, tolerate him at this point, but barely… and its almost 3am now, at 1 almost 2am he peed on my sisters bed while she slept and it woke her up, she was basically crying because of how done she was with it and i dont… i dont know if i should give him up. I dont know if i should just give up from having a cat at all and give him to someone else to take care of… he doesnt do good with strangers, is basically what got him sick last time (there were people working on my house and he held his pee for several hours because of it)

My mom is telling me to put him in the backyard at night so he doesnt so this anymore, or to just kick him out already so i dont know what to do… i dont have enough money to buy hormone sprays to keep him from peeing on my sisters bed, he IS taking his expensive ass medicine, and i even took him to the vet like a day ago and got him an anti inflammatory treatment too… but goddamn it i dont know what to do, i genuinely just dont know anymore. Hes the light of my life, hes been here in some of the darkest moments of it, hes my first cat, i dont wanna let go, he wouldn’t do well in a strangers house… but i dont know if keeping him is the best for me and it breaks me.