I haven’t had a pet in eight years and I haven’t had a cat in over two decades. But I have finally found myself ready to have another little furry one in my life. I am adopting an adorable eight-week-old black female kitten from my co-worker. I am so excited to bring her home but I am stressing a bit (because duh I’m a 39(F) with autism and I want the best for my child.) and I would greatly appreciate any advice for a new adoptive mother. Here are some questions I have.

  1. Besides the basics what else should I be getting?

  2. How can I make her transition less traumatic?

  3. Is there anything I should be doing to help create a bond?

  4. Should I take time off work?

  5. How can I make my studio apartment safe and welcoming?

  6. What shouldn’t I spend my money on?

  7. What type of food do you suggest? - I do know she can have dry all the time and then give her wet also. But what else?

  8. Can I supplement her diet with fresh protein, fruit, and vegetables?

  9. Can I train her to go outside with me?

  10. What behaviors should I be aware of and how to prevent them?

  11. General tips and tricks?

  12. Oddly specific tips and tricks?

Anything. Thank you so much in advance and I will definitely post photos when she comes home.