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blibla@slrpnk.net to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 3 days ago

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blibla@slrpnk.net to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 3 days ago
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  • isleepinahammock@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    I started working as a substitute teacher this year. “I’m a full time sub” has very different meanings depending on who in my social circle I say it to. 🤣

    Interestingly, it’s true no matter how you interpret it!

  • Banana@sh.itjust.works
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    speak for yourself ~

    I don’t deadlift 225lbs and dumbell chest press 90-100lbs for nothin! If it is not clear, I am very switchy.

    • isleepinahammock@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      I’m squatting 195 right now. Total sub and such a bottom I had bottom surgery. 🤣

      • Banana@sh.itjust.works
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        Hey that’s nothing to scoff at! Great work!

    • Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca
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      Press, flip or turn?

      • Banana@sh.itjust.works
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        Depends on which part of me you’re tryin to turn on ;)

        • Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca
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  • KuroiKaze@lemmy.world
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    Cute, switch, and vers living my best life…or generally always getting half of what I want lol

  • Duchess@piefed.linenoise.vip
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    • blibla@slrpnk.netOP
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      yes :3

      • Duchess@piefed.linenoise.vip
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        smh brats gonna brat

        I’m Oops! All Domme little one, better watch out who you call a sub or you’ll end up in the corner kneeling on some rice 😈;)

        be a good girl!

        • blibla@slrpnk.netOP
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          oh no surly wouldnt want that to happen >:p

    • macniel@feddit.org
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      *chomp*

    • LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works
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      I’m happily biting. The bait, I mean. Of course.

  • friendly_ghost@beehaw.org
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    Subscriber of this community? You got me

  • ルルㇲ@retrofed.com
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    Not I darling.💅
    Your browser does not support playing HTML5 video. You can download the file instead. Here is a description of the content: switch

    • basiclemmon98@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    • blibla@slrpnk.netOP
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      this was a ploy to get the doms out

      • ルルㇲ@retrofed.com
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        Too bad you got me instead😈

    • alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml
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      Switch, the bottom so submissive even other bottoms can make them do what they want.

      • KuroiKaze@lemmy.world
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        As a switch I have never been assaulted so thoroughly… Well okay maybe I have been a few times

      • ルルㇲ@retrofed.com
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        I prefer the term ♋︎. If the subies want me to be rough, I’ll be rough. Service is the name, to please is my domain.

        • KuroiKaze@lemmy.world
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          This is my mentality, I’m glad Guiles Sonic Boom is our official logo

  • orenj [he/they]@leminal.space
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    Nahhh. Im a switch, and recently single too. Ladies. Gentlemen. Nonbinary finery.

    • degen@midwest.social
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      When they say they’re a switch, but they can’t turn it off 😁

  • idegenszavak@sh.itjust.works
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    This is not reddit, they are called communities here

    • n0xy (it/its)@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      dommunities

    • inlandempire@jlai.lu
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      everyone’s a sub… scriber

    • birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Bylemmies*

    • Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      We should find a shorter word though, it’s too damn long!

      • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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        I usually say “comm”

        • jballs@sh.itjust.works
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          Should be “commies” since this is Lemmy, after all.

        • Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          If it catches on that’d be perfect ☺️, but people might not get it 😔, until we all use it 🤔, … hmm yeah definitely going to use that now 🤗!

          Com or comm though 😋

          • LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works
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            A political forum is a comm, an adult forum is a sub. Sorry, that’s the rules.

            • Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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              So do you sub to a comm and come to a sub?

              • LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works
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                Well played.

                Judging from this post, it the order seems to be to sub first and com[me] second.

            • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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              but everything is political, thus all forums are comms, even if some are subs

              • LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works
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                I believe in unpolitical sex, where we just sit around and assume that someone, somewhere will surely fix the sex part. Oh, and if we feel particularly freaky, we can feel vaguely uncomfortable about foreigners together

            • ShellMonkey@piefed.socdojo.com
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              I thought an adult forum would be a coom?

              • LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works
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                Only if the members enjoy themselves.

  • Another Catgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    tbh, while I have a cute subby personality and style of fashion, I can also dom an oomfie in the bedroom, and I think I do pretty well.

  • Chloé 🥕@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    not me ;3

    i am asexual.

    • Another Catgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      I’m ace-spec too but for me that just means not having sex in bed and doing something else fun and intimate instead

      • jan@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        Hugs and praises!! :3 :3

        • Another Catgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          lap pillow ^^’

  • n0xy (it/its)@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    They forgot the domscribe button

  • starsoaked_lily@lemmy.ml
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    the ratio makes being dom feel almost unfair - not that i am complaining. you all are /so/ cute

  • terwn43lp@lemmy.world
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    all the subs fell for the bait

  • WitchKnight@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Speak for yourself, I’m a stone top

  • Maven (famous)@lemmy.zip
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    Despite population belief, I am definitely not a sub lol

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