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Cake day: October 16th, 2023

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  • You know, ā€œmost of said outfitsā€ was too harsh. I’m gonna rate the outfits now, I love rating outfits!!!

    2, 3 and 10 look like men you should run away from.

    6 looks like he’s cosplaying as 60s italian movie riviera pinterest europe cinecitta, which I instinctively distrust. And I don’t care what anyone says, I will simply not abide the sockless loafer.

    4, whatever. I do not want to talk him. We clearly have nothing in common.

    8 is awesome. Looks like an actual cool guy, lovely outfit, love the pose. He’s what 6 wants to be.

    7 is pretty cool too. Have to dock points for the very modelly pose, sadly, but still, pretty sick fit.

    5 I don’t really like but he’s a more confidently realised version of 6 so good for him. Not tryhard or heterosexual-looking enough for me to hate. Keep it up.

    9 I am sure I would absolutely love if I saw it on someone who didn’t look like they were fresh out the male model factory. Bonus points for uncreased trousers.

    And finally 1 is obviously awesome but like. You cannot use this as an outfit recommendation. That’s just irresponsible. First the guy is buff as fuck and that is a necessary part of the outfit. It’s all about that mad silhouette. Second, I mean. This is pretty eccentric right. If you saw everyone dressing like this it would just be dumb. You cannot expect those poor lesswrongs to understand this.



  • ā€œIt is fascinating to receive such communiquĆ©s of strange news from another star. I would not know, without your saying so, that the set of 10 pictures are intended to be good examples and not bad examples.ā€

    To be fair most of said outfits read as ā€œrich arseholeā€ to me, which I do not find attractive. Yellow shirt guy I would suspect to be a white supremacist.

    As far as men’s fashion goes, I’ve seen much worse, though the bits I do like here feel fairly gay-coded to me so uh whatever. (I suspect those are the very same bits our Lesswrong Commenter is disapproving of.)



  • What The Shit

    I’ve been dating Nate for two years (tho wanna clarify we are not doing marriage-kids and we’re both actively looking for more serious other partners).

    Nate is profoundly wonderful in many ways, like often surprises me in new ways of wonderfulness, and has raised my standards in partners. He’s deeply caring, attentive, competent, hilarious, and of course brilliant.

    […]

    Iirc he’s explicitly said he doesn’t respect my thinking (edit: he clarifies he respects it in some areas but not others)

    The way these people are larping conflict resolution is so exhausting aaaaaaa please can you just do normal abuse




  • But anyways - why is there a vacuum in the jar? To preserve the jam? Isn’t jam a preserve? Like, I thought the whole raison d’etre of jam was as a way to make fruit keep, unrefrigerated, through the winter? Why must we preserve the preserve? Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?

    what is going on with these people i’m so annoyed i’m about to cry

    Why do so many containers require women asking a man for help in order to open them? (Or carrying around an opening tool or living in a kitchen?)

    how often do you open jam jars outside the kitchen?? it’s not that hard! you don’t actually have to force them open through grip strength like an idiot man!!