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Cake day: June 6th, 2023

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  • Sounds like things are rough and your relationship with your partner might not be as balanced as you thought previously. Do you have some friends to talk things through with and get another perspective? Remember just because you loved someone doesn’t mean that they have permission to hurt you and you should not expect that in a loving relationship.


  • Everyone dies. Only certainty of life.

    As part of my job in the hospital I often interact with dying people and their families. Palliative care - caring for people in the last period of their lives, in the UK focuses on patient experience and patient priorities. We generally aim for as pain free and as comfortable an end as possible and have medication which can usually make this a possibility.

    The dying process for most people is a lot like falling asleep. They get more and more sleepy and spend less time awake. Eventually they go to sleep and the breathing starts changing with bigger gaps between breaths and eventually the breathing stops.

    If it’s done well it’s a peaceful process with minimal pain and agitation.

    If this is something you are concerned about it might be worth talking to your doctor about it. We have the RESPECT process in the UK which is a guided conversation about things important to the patient around the end of their life with medical recommendations for what is appropriate (not every treatment is appropriate for every patient).




  • I think I’m a pretty kind and outgoing person. I’m also decidedly socialist, pretty much at eat the rich levels. So I think the world would change for the better, get some huge taxation going on the mega rich and funding for stuff like UBI. Dramatic shifts to renewable energy. People would probably stop killing each other. I can’t imagine doing that to someone else not in self defence.

    I commute to work by bicycle and think cars are useful but good public transport is better so that is probably handy.

    Down sides I’m a habitual comfort eater and love food so the obesity problem might get worse.



  • I have picked up HEMA historical European martial arts. It’s sword fighting. It’s super fun. Everyone at my club is a massive nerd as you might expect. It’s good exercise and genuinely fun. The down side is the kit is pretty expensive. At my club we have a newby joining session with a discounted attendance period which builds to a safety test before you really need to get safety kit which gives people a chance to try it before they spend hundreds on jackets and masks (and swords!).