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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • My linked image might be a bad example, but I know it mostly happens with gifs. I tried screenshoting the posts it was happening to, but I can’t seem to view said posts because I had “hide read posts” and"scrolling past post marks as read" on, so they’re gone.

    On a related note, I turned off both settings and cleared my hidden posts log, but I still can’t seem to view the posts I was trying to screenshot! Using a Pixel 5A, Android version 13.

    EDIT: When I send a comment recently, it death spirals until I back out, but the comment does post. I don’t believe this was happening before, so might be a part of your recent update? Thanks again for paying attention to lil ol’ me 👍




  • Lie down on your side with the clogged nostril higher than your clear nostril. Breathe normally and you’ll notice your nostril will unclog after a few minutes, works 90% of the time.

    Think of the clog as a mass behind your nose and gravity is shifting it to the middle. FYI it might switch to the other nostril, so it might take a few attempts before you clear both and at the very least you get a bit of easy relief without meds or more aggressive methods.




  • It starts off with small, benign things that are too small to make a big deal out of. Maybe I am an idiot for forgetting to do the dishes? Then they don’t like your friends, your family is too judgemental and you need to respect whatever they say because your partner takes priority, how dare you not be completely committed to your partner?

    I didn’t really know what gaslighting truly was until I was already in too deep, but it involves eroding a person’s self esteem, debasing their values and constantly putting someone down so they’re constantly trying to think of anything they can do to keep their partner happy because that’s what a good partner does. I think the tipping point when I started to question my relationship was when she punched me in my face on my birthday, kicked me out of the car and had to walk home 2 miles at 1am; I think I stayed in the relationship probably another 1-2 years after that because that’s how effective it can be.

    Oh and FYI they’ll never actually take their mask off. Once I finally caught them red handed cheating on me, her mask “slipped” and she smiled for just a quick second. Then she doubled down and tried to say she can’t live without me, its not what it looks like, and trying to seduce me, anything to sell the lie and never ever admitted the truth.