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  • I meet a lot of people who want an honest relationship, but also date around a lot while looking and will go on dates with several other people while still trying things with someone else and that never made sense to me. If you’re looking for an honest, monogamous relationship it makes more sense to me to try dating 1 person at a time. If they are worth a 2nd date id say they are worth giving a fair shot and not seeing 3 other people on first dates before that 2nd date ever happens.

    In my experience I’m the weird one for this view and most people tend to date and sleep around until a commited relationship starts out of that mess and one party puts their foot down on the other seeing other people for dates.







  • That lower rent housing could still feel like financial progress. If it meets your needs still, you now have more money to spend on things that aren’t housing. I’ve seen some older couples sell their larger homes and move into small apartments or houses. It cuts back on their costs, maintainance demands, and frees up money for other things like better wine, gifts for the kids, or vacations.


  • When i moved from my apartment to my house, i lined up the closing date to only have 2 weeks of overlap with my rent rather than a full month. I was able to use my work van to do multiple trips over the evenings to move my stuff and prep the house. This let me not take any time off work while minimizing double payments for housing.

    I have friends where every time they move they get all their stuff out on their last day into a uhaul, sleep in the truck or motel, and move into their new place the next day so they never have to double up a rent payment. If the unit you’re moving to is empty most landlords will let you get your stuff there a few days earlier.








  • True as that is, you actually have to show off that humor to get numbers. This guy just did what he regularly does at his job. I actually feel bad for him because he probably deserved a better tip instead of 4 phone numbers.

    Lets also not forget that this may have been considered quite creepy if the genders were reversed and the server did nothing beyond serving to imply interest.



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    7 天前

    Not doing things like walking or other things that have been proven good for mental health when you have depression is akin to not getting treatment for cancer. Some people still die from cancer while on treatments, but a lot more of them survive than the ones that don’t attempt treatment.