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Cake day: September 21st, 2024

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  • I’m with you dude. it does get better in many ways. it gets worse in some others.

    my advice, get medicated for anxiety and/or depression.

    it sounds like you’re both going through a pretty rough time and need some time to breathe. lean on your support for some time alone with your wife to find your confidence together as a couple.

    communicate your needs to each other clearly and respectfully. you both can’t do it alone and will need to do this together.

    • take each day at a time
    • it’s ok to put the baby down in the crib and step away for a minute if you’re feeling overwhelmed
    • share how you’re feeling with your wife, you’re a team after all
    • you will fuck up, accept it, you’re human and it comes with the territory
    • don’t try to be a “super dad/mom”, they don’t exist and anyone who says otherwise is lying