Freelance journalist and dirty hippie burner.

I read news so you don’t have to (but you still should).

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Cake day: June 6th, 2023

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  • I’d missed having a cat around since having to rehome Clovis ahead of moving into my van three years ago. The cat in the house I’m living in took a bit to warm up to me, but I now have rather the opposite problem. Literally a minute after waking up today, she hopped onto the bed and proceeded to stay here for 10½ hours.

    As any proper cat does, she vehemently dislikes my laptop and finds her positioning invalid without at least one paw able to tap my trackpad if not taking up most of the keyboard with her front half. And she is not a fan of being moved, nor is she receptive to gentle nudging, nor does she care if I leave the room to hang out downstairs … I return to the room, and there she is, right where I left her.

    Last night was an unexpected bonfire with two of the other people involved in the commune project, one of whom I’d not yet met and the other being the woman who vacated my room and once spent a night in my van checking my electrical system.

    We all got along like a house on fire, giving each other shit immediately after meeting the new guy. Much drinking and smoking ensues, and apparently the woman and I were going at each other enough verbally that one remark was “Jesus, why don’t you two just fuck already?” (Answer: She’s smitten with her girlfriend of a few months, and apparently the night in my van was actually a test to see if I respected boundaries well ahead of the housing offer. We had a fair amount of time to ourselves as the other two headed off to the garage.)

    So, things proceed apace. They’re going to a pagan camping event next weekend that I can’t afford, so although I was invited, it’s not doable given the issues my ex caused by stealing $300 in September. But I’m in Arizona for my dad’s memorial the following week anyway, so I could use a quiet weekend first instead of going into full-on burner mode and flying out three days later.

    It’s cool to know that the people I’m going to be around are exactly the sorts of people I’d pick if I had a choice. When Ra went inside at one point, I mentioned that I felt really lucky to have been invited to join, and the guy said, “She’s always on the lookout for her people, and she never chooses wrong.” That’s a serious skill.

    I certainly can’t complain that life is boring.