I’ve had these. Usually related to those I am close with. Dreams of bad things happening to them or dreams of intense jealousy. They make me wake up in a panic. I’m 37 now but only been getting help I the last year or so.

My therapist advised me that (at least in my case) these don’t nessary reflect who I am in waking world. the reasons these dreams disturb me is because they counter my views of myself.

It’s like if I dream of myself committing a grievously violent murder and I wake up disturbed. That doesn’t mean I have a desire to hurt people it means the opposite.

Your own case may be different but you can’t really stop bad dreams. Dreams are a symtomn of bad sleep so you can work on improving that. What you can do is learn how to process a dream and have it affect you less negatively.

Good luck.

Great podcast about this https://youtu.be/epkCrB8aKXA?si=39bXXQQihqmWFSLm

Ah good to know. I’ve never been able to get a clear answer from my doctor about it. But I do know as I’m creeping to my 40s my guts protest the spicy stuff with sharp pains

I’ve eaten this a few times. It’s actually great when you have congestion. Clears the sinuses real good. May have also given me an ulcer, but I used to eat a lot of spicy stuff so could have been anything.

Oddly yes, scene where the kids are stomping on toes while a goblin yells “hurt them hurt them!”

Such an educator.

Now you can relax with a delicious bowl of granny creams.

I’ve spent 2 months transcribing an entire poorly written text book into a Google doc. I’m now taking that transcription and having chat gpt rewrite it all for readability. All so I can maybe pass certification exam.

The problem is less with us and more with academia having developed an highly oppressive way of writing things. But from my perspective it’s just sloppy unreadable garbage.

AI has been great I can just give It the promt “make this concise and readable using only common language” and it will take entire chapters down to simple point form lists for me.

I also use goblin tools for writing.

Have you seen that new tribe, the savages don’t even have skull spikes everywhere. We should donate some skulls to them they’ll make some skullspikes like a proper civilized tribe.

Fitting he’d appear in a glitch

The trireme is my best naval unit sailing out to finally explore the seas after I’ve conquered my continent. I think this is the playthrough I finally win via conquest. Then I find Gandhi’s warship and all hope is lost.

I provide my usual advice. Volunteer. It’s local, you meet people, usually the kind of people who Volunteer for things (meaning good people). Even if you don’t find a date it can build your social network which will help.

As for specially fellow Ace people you may try pride, or LGBTQA+ events. Somtimes (the ones that accept us) will have some Ace representation.

One alternative may be to look in the Nerodivergent spaces, if you happen to a part of that community.

Not to assume. But someone back on reddit mentioned that a study had shown disproportionate number of us are in the autism spectrum. This is true in my case and with the few other Ace I’ve met offline. When I eventually get back into dating I may give Hiki a shot along with the volunteering.

What is this? did they bring back the Doozy Bots?

It’s on young and Dundas, window wraps are up already. You can get a shake while being told, over a megaphone, about how your going to rot in hell or some other religious nonsense.

Comming from a simular situation. So the best I can give is my own story.

Nearing my 40s. More of a rimworld/minecrafter. Every day off work, every waking minute im in a game.

short version of a long story. I’m experiencing huge life changes. Therapy and friends convinced me to remove one of the major causes of my isolation. And with it going away I saw just how isolated I actually was all this time. I saw how badly it has affected me. The negativity is part of that. It’s like a symptom of isolation poisoning.

I feel for the first time that I’ve wasted so much time. I didn’t value making friends or seeking a life parter. Though having made a friend everything changed.

Honestly the desire to play games is fading and it now feels bad to play games all day. Making a real friend who is postive made me want to be more positive i leared that it’s a genuinely good feeling.

Isolation is comfortable but it comes at a cost you may not see. It’s good to go out and get some perspective occasionally.

These just seem like more expensive bins to be destroyed by trash raiders (including racoons) and engarged alcoholics. I agree we need to replace the current one with a stonger model, but these don’t look tough enough.

Often me. I make tools/interactions for learning management systems. So the back end is a thid party I have no controll over. Just take the api and make the magic happen.

You need me to save data somewhere but don’t want to buy server space? Sure we can cram that into places it’s not ment to go within the system. It will slow things down and likly cause issues but it’s free.

It’s been recommended on here a few times but I’m finding that Goblin tools the judge tool is pretty good. If thats not cutting it I just have chat gpt do the whole letter. I’d generate one from scratch or have it make my existing letter “more readible” and ask it to be “less wordy”.

Neat! Thank you for the info I’ll have to try that out

I always wonder how these make it past long winters without a freezer. But then I noticed you have meat drying racks. I wonder I that comes with a salt harvesting mechanic.

Also is there a mod to make flour from grains? As somthing to ensure other tribes are also limited to medieval tech. I fear If I took this challenge printer whould just pop in with some doomsday launchers and destroy me.