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Sometimes their spouse sees the bill, and they deny that they made the order so hard that they actually go through with making a chargeback for a purchase they know they made

There are payment processors that will work with these companies, they just charge more because of frequent chargebacks and legal risks. If a porn company found a way to solve these issues, they might not have such troubles, but that’s obviously not really feasible

Close enough. Welcome back Blender Game Engine

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They must be running from some imminent danger in such a scenario, so perhaps I would.

Hey OP, did you film this? Mind if I upload it to Wikimedia Commons? Seems like a nice case study here lol

To get more historical background on this, I suggest you read Who is Afraid of Gender by Judith Butler.