I’ve tried, he just says he doesn’t know

Thanks, probably if he started outright saying he didn’t care about me like my one5th grade “ex” said to me

Thank you 🫂 My therapist at group said to break up if he didn’t meet my needs. I’m giving him one more chance if we ever hang out later

yes, I’m not born in Poland and I didn’t grow up speaking Polish though I’m learning it on-and-off, but I grew up with people proud of their Polish heritage and always ready to learn more about their heritage country so I consider myself to be Polish. I’m like 16% Spanish and mostly English :]

Thanks. I asked him if we could hang out like old times, he said “I don’t know”. I asked if he would spend more time with me and he said “I don’t know, maybe when my other boyfriend is busy”

Don’t I know it…

My partner used to spend so much time with me but now he almost completely avoids me for his new boyfriend

I don’t think he’s necessarily a bad boyfriend anymore, maybe the poly thing just isn’t working or he will one day wanna spend more time with me

True

Fair enough. I will replace him ngl

I thought so 😓 he would definitely respond to Alex, the old Avery would have responded

He also doesn’t wanna keep up our selfie streak of sending photos to each other nor does he save my photos anymore (we talk on Snapchat) and I feel like once, if, he breaks up with his boyfriend he’s gonna crawl back to me

Does it mean anything that I said “Can’t wait to see you tomorrow ❤️ “ and he just read it and didn’t say anything back like usual ?

Also, all he does besides that is read yaoi or boys love so it further makes me wonder if he’s just gay, IDK though, just speculation

He doesn’t even care at this point. He just said “honestly idk” when I asked if he could spend more time with me

Thanks. I overreacted but im upset with avery not alex

Most likely yeah

Makes sense. I’m fine with him doting on other people I guess but not when he spends way more time with them and doesn’t even wanna call or spend time because he’s too busy with him.

I’m also sure most stoners and alcoholics care more about their partner than drugs and alcohol but he is a stoner and an alcoholic and never texts me even when he’s getting high or drunk like he used to, he just reads it but he texts his boyfriend all the time even when high/drunk

Thanks, makes sense

Do you think there’s any chance he doesn’t know he’s hurting me?