When I use it, I mean ok, because that’s what it actually means. It’s simply a way to acknowledge someone was heard. I will not be changing bc others read more into it. Tis way too exhausting to consider every hidden meaning someone might have.
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xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What are the most mindblowing things in mathematics?English1·2 years agoThis explanation really helped me make sense of it: Monty Hall Problem (best explanation) - Numberphile
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto ADHD@lemmy.world•Did something today I had been putting off for 6 monthsEnglish4·2 years agoWell done!!
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto Europe@feddit.de•TikTok’s algorithm will be optional in EuropeEnglish1·2 years agoThat would be fantastic. Sometimes I want to watch what people send me, but not continue receiving the same kind of content, since it’s unrelated to my personal interests.
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto Europe@feddit.de•TikTok’s algorithm will be optional in EuropeEnglish2·2 years agoI don’t want to be the one to use it, but it’s fair enough that some might. There’s no harm in having both options.
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto Autism@lemmy.world•Thoughts on why small talk is so uniquely painfulEnglish2·2 years agoI’ve never felt so understood. I’ve contemplated telling people, “sorry that’s too personal of a question“ when asked. It’s painful.
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto Europe@feddit.de•TikTok’s algorithm will be optional in EuropeEnglish161·2 years agoAgreed, but more privacy aware options is not a bad thing.
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto Games@sh.itjust.works•It's Party Time: Baldur's Gate 3 is Out NowEnglish3·2 years agoI’m still taking ages to decide on my character— so definitely like D&D
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•Google engineers want to make ad-blocking (near) impossibleEnglish451·2 years agoWhen will they understand, if I’m introduced to your product through an advertisement, I do not want to buy it. I will make a point not to. Do not annoy me. If your product is good enough, it will be bought.
What about people with no gender and shortish hair? 🥺
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto ADHD@lemmy.world•Do neurotypicals really not have to do this? I'm seriously asking.English2·2 years agoI’m AuDHD. I need my keys and things in the same spot, but I also struggle to remember to actually put them there. That’s the missing part of the habit for me. I have to consciously think “put them here” every time or future me will have a meltdown when they can’t find what should be there.
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto ADHD@lemmy.world•Do neurotypicals really not have to do this? I'm seriously asking.English13·2 years agoOn the surface, I probably look like the person you’re describing, but no one knew I had an ADHD diagnosis that went ignored in childhood. No one knew how much I was masking every day. It’s harder now because I have to make my own meals, clean my house, etc. All the things I didn’t have to do as a kid. I got to learn, which I loved (my special interest is research) and do various activities I enjoyed, even if it was exhausting. Now, I’m stuck doing all the things I was never taught by my family, with no structure, just trying to survive. Of course it’s harder than when I was a kid. Those memes help me feel valid and seen, something my family were never willing to do, but at least now I have friends that get it.
There’s so much trauma that happens from neurodivergence being ignored in childhood, and that takes time to process. I spend a lot of my days crying over all the times I wasn’t allowed to cry growing up, processing things in therapy, etc. I literally can’t force myself to enjoy life without first having the needed tools. It’s sad that I can’t do what I used to, but I’m slowly getting there. Kindness and patience are what are needed most, when that’s not something I was given as a child.
All this to say, you never know what’s below the surface.
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•Meta Threads engagement has dropped 50% in a weekEnglish6·2 years agoThis is me too, including every janky MMO I think I might remotely like. Gotta grab my character name. But Threads, haven’t bothered to touch it.
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What habits or practies have you adopted from cultures besides your own?282·2 years agoI’ve learned from the Japanese phrase ‘itadakimasu,’ which is said before eating as a way to thank the person that prepared the food. I think in the west, a lot of us grew up learning to say things like grace before a meal, but that is too religious for me and gives God credit for peoples’ hard work instead. I love the idea of ritualistically thanking the people who actually made the food. It was one of the things I appreciated while studying there that has stuck with me.
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto politics @lemmy.world•Biden confronts a 'pissed-off generation' of young voters who may be decisive in 2024English3·2 years agoSadly, be shocked. I got a friend through registering to vote and even offered a ride on election day this past November and she still decided to not bother “because politics are stressful to hear about.”
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto Reddit@lemmy.world•If I go on the reddit website and scroll through posts without doing anything else, would that affect Reddit's ad revenue, or is it insignificant to Reddit?2·2 years agoThis has been my way. I knew it would be hard, so every time I find myself wanting to check reddit, I think of what I planned to do there and attempt to find an alternative. It’s led to a lot more browsing the internet like I used to “back in the day.” And then I only visit reddit if I can’t find what I was looking for elsewhere. For most things, I find alternatives easily. I’ve mentioned in comments before, really the only things that I haven’t been able to replace are the CPTSD and CPTSD memes subreddits.
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto Reddit@lemmy.world•Reddit protest updates: news on the apps shutting down and Reddit’s fights with mods - The VergeEnglish1·2 years agoDon’t forget Myspace. I so miss that, Xanga, and AIM.
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto Reddit@lemmy.world•Reddit protest updates: news on the apps shutting down and Reddit’s fights with mods - The VergeEnglish3·2 years agoYep, between Reddit and Twitter, I might need to buy some more popcorn.
xXemokidforeverXx@lemmy.worldto Autism@lemmy.world•Do you have Justice Sensitivity? How does it manifest for you?English10·2 years agoI’m very much like this, but typically only in the defense of others. I struggle to stand up for myself at all
I’ve always thought it had the same energy in that they both simply acknowledge having seen the message. What’s wrong with that?