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Cake day: February 3rd, 2025

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  • Just stop a lot if you want to meet people. Make small talk, be open about your travels, ask locals where the cool spots are. Since it’s summer, you could make a point to check out some public trails, lakes, and national or provincial parks. You’ll definitely find people there.

    For accommodations, unfortunately summer tourism is big business in “cottage country” and the cheap spots, even for a few days, were likely booked months ago. You may be able to park overnight at a campground for a decent price, though. But I suggest you still keep looking at B&Bs and motels just in case something pops up last minute.

    Here’s a tip I heard from a person living in their car: if you can’t find a place to stay, try looking for a large parking lot (like a Walmart or something) with a big transport truck parked at the front somewhere; that often means it’s okay/low-risk to park overnight.











  • Maybe he would play co-op games with you? Unfortunately, this is sort of a problem that you can’t really help with (not concretely). If he’s not willing to pause the game and hang out with you, you won’t be able to change that; he needs to want to change and right now it seems he doesn’t want that or is otherwise overwhelmed by or resigned to whatever’s going on.

    As someone who also struggles with video game binges that often last 8-24 hours, has he ever considered he might have ADHD? I have it (inattentive type) and depression and what little you’ve mentioned reminds me of myself.

    Even if he doesn’t have ADHD and is just avoiding dealing with other issues, looking into some strategies for staying present and managing unpleasant thoughts from an ADHD perspective might help if his main way to cope is distraction. I would also encourage him to see a therapist if he can afford it, but that’s a huge step for some and it might take a bit to get comfy with the idea.