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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • As an update, we’re working on being a lot more communicative about things that feel good or bad, and while she was sucking me off yesterday I was grabbing her ass pretty hard. She was making some noises and I wasn’t sure what she was feeling, but she told me that “it hurts but I kinda like it” which sounded pretty good to me ;) Makes me think she’s definitely be into the edging when the time seems right to bring it up, as well as potentially exploring some light bondage/restraint play. Perhaps she just needs to figure out the things that get her imagination going



  • I think we’re both on the same page in that she’s going to talk with her doctors about possible medication changes, and if that doesn’t change anything we’re just going to have to get more creative. She likes giving me pleasure, but I worry that she doesn’t get anything out of it and just feels obligated to do it. We’ll see how it goes. Might even consider seeing some sort of couples therapist to get to the bottom of this wherever it leads. At the moment it just feels impossible to know where things are going wrong, considering I was her first sexual partner so she doesn’t have any experience to compare to.

    She hadn’t even masturbated before we were together, and I’m glad that she can at least experience and enjoy orgasms. It’s where me and her vulva mix in any capacity that’s the sticking point. Touch anywhere else is good