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Cake day: November 17th, 2022

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  • North of $25k… And that’s for the first round.

    Because here’s the thing, every body is different. At first they go with the “average IVF woman’s” level of hormones to produce as many eggs as possible. Will it work for you? Who knows! They check blood work every week, and then at the end of the cycle they surgically remove anything that looks matures and try to fertilize. Say 12 eggs are retrieved, maybe 7 are successfully fertilized. Then they incubate for a few weeks - maybe 4 make it through and are candidates for surgical implant, (if so, you’re lucky and they’ll try one or two max for implant at a time). Or maybe all of them don’t make it.

    But if you don’t have any viable options, well we try for round two with slightly tweaked hormones. Did round two not work? Time for round three with slightly different hormone levels/timing. (We learned so much about your specific body chemistry!)

    Even after all of that, say you get a successful implantation - you’re now pregnant. All costs for prenatal care, hospital birth - that’s an add on to the $75k you’ve spent for IVF. And because humans are weird, there’s no guarantee with IVF that you or the baby will survive and be healthy!

















  • Ideally, sure use a password generator - but I wouldn’t worry about the security of a password generator like the one I linked.

    1. There’s no linking of the password you generated to whichever account you are creating.
    2. There’s no guarantee from the web operator’s perspective that you are actually using the generated passwords for anything at all.

    Again, use bitwarden’s generator - or equivalent - for passphrases, but in the absence of that correcthorsebatterystaple.com is good enough for a non-shared password.




  • The other thing to keep in mind with PiHole - some things are just going to break with it’s default blocking, namely the Google suggested results.

    i know, I know - just don’t use google, but android phones/parents have a hard time not just braindead going to Google for results.

    It’s not the end of the world - I’ve trained myself to just keep scrolling to actual results.

    Another feature for PiHole is local DNS - if you want, you can set up custom dnsmasq entries for self hosted/internal services.