“The Things They Carried” by TIm O’Brien. Usually I prefer less of fiction, but it’s less of a narrative story of ‘what happens next’ or ‘what is happening’ but more of what is happening inside the minds and hearts of the characters, which is something I really like. Favourite story so far is “Speaking of Courage” which tells all the internal conflicts and struggles of someone coming back from war - real powerful and emotional read.
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Finished Quiet by Susan Cain, finally - shared this as my read here some time ago. As a textbook introvert it wasn’t exactly an easy read, emotionally, for me - so often had to put the book down to deal with all the emotions, to process the catharsis or to grieve for what past-me had to go through. But ultimately it was quite a positive read, though I wouldn’t say that I agree with everything in the book - especially speaking from a professional perspective, personally I did find a lot of affirmation and validation from the book. I mean, just this morning I declined an invitation to a dinner party with just a slight hint of guilt, haha!
Reading something of an entirely different feel currently - had to go for something ‘light’ after the previous read. The Man Who was Saturday, a biography of Airey Neave.
Haha, this one even has hot shower! Which is greatly appreciated, because it rained quite a bit when we’re there and it was super cold at night. But with all the luxuries it does take away a little of the"outdoor-y" feel so. 😆
We went to this site called Canopy Villa at Janda Baik. The place is actually very nice! The facilities are quite proper, and the tents and beds are considerably clean. And because it was Merdeka, the site put up a camp fire for us (for free; normally would have to pay for it). Quite a nice place for a short getaway.
Went glamping with the church group during the Merdeka holiday, it was lovely!
Though I’m physically exhausted (we stayed up until 4 for board games haha) and more so have depleted my social quota by the end of the trip, it was a really nice experience!
For my former classmate’s case it’s less about academic results - we’re from a quite a reputable high school after all - but more on that they were not the best behaving student in class. Though nothing bad and more of middle-schooler antics, but I remember them as quite a mischievous person, loud, and always ready for a prank. But I guess that was a way of them showcasing their leadership quality even back then.
But still it’s indeed a good encouragement for young people to not base their self-value on results, also to be less anxious about their future directions, but that they’ll also find their strengths and passion one day.
One of the little joys of going back home to vote - it’s like a mini reunion, ha!
Also just discovered one of my former classmates was standing for election. Won by a large margin too. Never expected that, wasn’t the best student in school, ha! But really glad for them, looking up some news and they seemed to be doing quite some work in their area.
rom1215_@monyet.ccOPto Café@monyet.cc•[Event Sharing] Doulos Hope - Floating Bookfair (Penang, EM)2·2 years agoHey, some good news! Doulos Hope will be extending their stay in Penang for another 2 weeks, and the booking has just opened, so should have quite some slots still.
rom1215_@monyet.ccOPto Café@monyet.cc•[Event Sharing] Doulos Hope - Floating Bookfair (Penang, EM)1·2 years agoYeah unfortunately the slots are extremely limited this time, apparently the only allow 200 visitors per hour slot so I have many friends who also failed to get a pass. Didn’t get to visit them myself. I have some friends who signed up as volunteers though so did hear them sharing about the experience.
Imo they did suffer a bit from some bad planning and communication. They were planning to visit Penang much earlier but was delayed, while the delay was not their fault the subsequent communications were not really done well, many people were unaware of their latest schedule and by the time we got to know about their visit most of the slots were already been taken up by those who got the news earlier. Quite unfair like this la haha.
Sorry that you didn’t get to visit them this time. Maybe next time (hopefully with better management haha!)
rom1215_@monyet.ccOPto Café@monyet.cc•Do you know that Penang Asam Laksa is believed to be influenced by a traditional Burmese dish called Mohinga?2·2 years agoGlad you enjoyed the story and learned something interesting!
rom1215_@monyet.ccOPto Café@monyet.cc•Do you know that Penang Asam Laksa is believed to be influenced by a traditional Burmese dish called Mohinga?4·2 years agoThanks! Yeah it’s so interesting isn’t it? I love these kind of stories too haha. I first heard about the story from a friend, but did went on to look for more information and compiled the information I could find, and came up with this post.
rom1215_@monyet.ccOPto Café@monyet.cc•Do you know that Penang Asam Laksa is believed to be influenced by a traditional Burmese dish called Mohinga?1·2 years agoHaha, hey!!! X2
But the taste is not actually the same or even similar. But the main ingredients and way of preparing have a lot of similarities, hence the inferred influence.
rom1215_@monyet.ccOPto Café@monyet.cc•Do you know that Penang Asam Laksa is believed to be influenced by a traditional Burmese dish called Mohinga?2·2 years agoThanks! I was really interested when I first heard of the story as well, and thought I must look more into it and share the story!
rom1215_@monyet.ccOPto Café@monyet.cc•Do you know that Penang Asam Laksa is believed to be influenced by a traditional Burmese dish called Mohinga?1·2 years agoHaha, hey!!!
But this part is actually the hardest to establish in the whole story, we could only infer the influence from the historical interactions.
And mohinga is really good in its own too!
rom1215_@monyet.ccOPto Café@monyet.cc•[Event Sharing] Doulos Hope - Floating Bookfair (Penang, EM)1·2 years agoI believe she was scheduled to visit more ports in Malaysia, but had to cut short her visit because the ship had to undergo some repairs. But I’m sure she’ll be back (or her sister ship the Logos Hope), hopefully will get a chance to visit then!
Don’t forget to self care!
I see, sorry to hear that too! (But it’s not a problem - this kind of situation with therapy can happen.) Just wishing you that you’ll find some support and help you need (in professional service or otherwise) soon!
rom1215_@monyet.ccto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How many Lemmy users are non-technical background?1·2 years agoAyy happy to see another non techie therapist here!
Just finished No Easy Day by Mark Owens, the autobiography of a Navy Seal who took part in the operation to hunt down and kill bin Laden. Interesting to read about the account if nothing else.
Also just realised this is my fourth consecutive book about war. Going to do something different next. Maybe some recommendations?