Hi all! This is an alt for anonymity. Please be gentle, this is a hard topic for me to discuss.

I’m a progressive United States citizen who is looking to get out. I’m of Italian descent so I’m working on getting Italian citizenship through jure sanguinis, but it’s going to take some time, if it works at all (gotta substantiate some relations) and won’t extend to my husband until he completes a citizenship test, which he can do after living in Italy for two years.

Here’s my big question: is moving to Italy even a good idea?

I know there’s a significant element of fascism there, but that seems to be the case to varying extents throughout Europe. I’ve visited a few times as a tourist and everyone was very kind. I also have a US cousin that lives there as a permanent resident near Napoli and she is very encouraging, saying people will be welcoming. We don’t want much, just to make a living and maybe have a kid.

  • DJDarren
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    5 days ago

    I have an Italian friend, so tried to learn Italian. I did French at school (30 years ago), so how hard can it be, right?

    Real fucking hard.

    WHY DO SO MANY THINGS HAVE GENDERS?! WHY IS AN APPLE TREE HE, BUT AN APPLE IS SHE?! (or is it the other way around?)

    I’m English, so I guess I’ll just carry on the grand tradition of talking louder and using hand gestures.

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      2 days ago

      fun fact! In french, the slang word for penis (bite) is feminine, so it’s la bite.

      Makes total sense

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      5 days ago

      Most Italians don’t speak correct Italian. As long as you make yourself understood, in day-to-day life it doesn’t matter.

      Of course work may require you to perfect your language skills for certain roles.