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Cake day: September 20th, 2023

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  • DJDarrentoPeople Twitter@sh.itjust.worksFeelings? Nah
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    10 hours ago

    Wore nail polish at work this week, because I’m a bloke in his 40s who works in an office so fuck it, why not.

    Our HR manager - a man in his 50s who fairly recently sent out an email reminding us to talk about our feelings to help our mental health - asked me (half jokingly) if I was “going through some life changes”

    I will be when I find a better company to work for.






  • A couple of years back (pretty much when I canned Twitter for Mastodon), I decided to actively be more positive in my online interactions. And you know, it’s been great.

    For example, if I see a post on a movie community on here along the lines of “What movie do you hate, even though it’s really popular?” I’ll just sail on by. At most I’ll mark it as hidden so I don’t get tempted to wallow in negativity.

    10/10 I can heartily recommend just ignoring things that are framed negatively, and people who try to draw you into a row for their own entertainment.





  • DJDarrentoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldWait a minute...
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    7 days ago

    Speaking from the UK: Yes and no.

    After 14 years of Tory scum in charge, arts education in schools is on its arse, because it doesn’t provide workers to grind into a paste once they’ve left education. Indeed, most schools are struggling like fuck because funding kept getting cut while more was being required of them.

    As a whole education here is seen as a civic duty to ensure our kids are well-equipped for life in the workforce, but the scope of the education isn’t limited to just what they’d need for that, even if the central focus is.




  • DJDarrento196@lemmy.blahaj.zonethe rule of patriarchy inflicts all
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    8 days ago

    Amen to that, broster.

    I’m lucky that my wife is enby and a similar size, so was happy for me to try on some of their clothes. Long story short, Vinted has enabled me to build up a small wardrobe of dresses, skirts, and pretty tops that I wear most evenings. It feels nice to feel pretty.

    I’m basically Captain Shakespeare.

    (Robert De Niro in Stardust, dancing in his dressing room wearing lingerie and a feather boa.)



  • Ain’t this the truth.

    I’m a cis guy who likes to dress feminine around the house, and figured I’d paint my nails sparkly red and green for Christmas. Went into (my very masculine place of) work with them and got a depressing amount of comments asking if I’m gay, or expressing concern that I might be.

    My dudes, it’s painted nails. I’m not trying to rail you all. Not least because my standards are far higher.



  • DJDarrentoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldRaw dawing
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    11 days ago

    My marks were mere points away from being in First range. It’s frustrating as hell to look back on.

    It’s a testament to how hard I worked on the course submissions (in the 12 hours before the handing in deadline) that I did as well as I did. Because honestly, when I think back to that final year of being sat in front of my computer screen, the overwhelming memory is having four different browsers open, logged into four different Facebook accounts that I used to be a dickhead troll in racist groups, winding up the racists.

    None of that had anything to do with the radio production degree that I’d paid good money to study towards.