Well, yeah. There’s a difference between wanting to hit it and quit it and having a sexual desire that comes with genuinely liking someone. The former views me as a piece of meat, and that’s easy to clock. I should have been more clear, but I thought sexual desire being a spectrum was implied.
Sleazebags are easy to spot, everyone else is just a normal person who may be interested in you as a person and that interest can grow or wane depending on successive interactions.
Well, yeah. There’s a difference between wanting to hit it and quit it and having a sexual desire that comes with genuinely liking someone. The former views me as a piece of meat, and that’s easy to clock. I should have been more clear, but I thought sexual desire being a spectrum was implied.
Sleazebags are easy to spot, everyone else is just a normal person who may be interested in you as a person and that interest can grow or wane depending on successive interactions.