You know, like “always split on 18,” or “having kids is the most rewarding thing you can do in life.”

What’s that one bit of advice you got from a trusted friend that you know deep, deep down would just ruin your thing?

  • blarth
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    9 months ago

    Similarly, if you have kids, being completely authoritarian is a losing strategy.

    • BastingChemina@slrpnk.net
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      9 months ago

      Yeah, having kids made me realize how important it is to choose my battle.

      I prefer being strict on a limited set of important rules and more lenient on the rest rather than trying to do too much and just giving up on everything when i’m exhausted.

      Like it’s fine if my two years old is a bit messy on the table and does not finish his plate as long as he’s trying the food and let us have our dinner too in a relative peace.