• corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca
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    5 months ago

    Is expecting his life to contain such excesses as to afford a retirement plan more than victim-blaming? It’s hard to monday-morning quarterback a lifetime of decisions made in each moment and staying objective while knowing essentially the future for each one.

    What if the voices second-guessing every decision we ever made were mutterings from a future society which has the ability to go back in time and doesn’t realize we can hear the spectators?

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      5 months ago

      You can try to paint me as a victim blamer all you want. I tried to make it clear that I legitimately wonder. I empathize with his situation, and I bet he would be open to share his stories, cautionary or otherwise, and not act like you are.

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      5 months ago

      Can’t tell whether the down-votes are from people who DO like to blame people when their lifetime of choices paint them into a neveretirement corner, or just people who’ve traveled back in time trying to silence me. I WILL NOT BE SIL

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