I met my girlfriend on an MSN chat room in 2005. We had a long distance relationship but when I went to Sweden to stay with her it didn’t work out. She still wanted to be friends but I was so hurt but the breakup that I blocked her from MSN Messenger and I blocked her email address. Looking back on it I regret it because She was the best friend I have had in my whole life. Unfortunately her old MSN Hotmail no longer works because Microsoft replaced it with outlook mail. I know her first and last name her approximate age within 2 years, her hometown and where she went to college. Unfortunately I can’t find her anywhere online. She has a fairly common name and I’ve checked every single social media site and can’t find her. I’ve Google her and used a swedish people finder called eniro and still haven’t found her. Though I found someone that maybe could be her. Problem is I don’t know her birthday. I only remember her being 2 or 3 years younger than me. Is it possible she married and changed her name. I hope she isn’t dead because I miss her and want to reconnect with her. What makes me think she might be dead is that she use to love going online and use to spend hours online everyday. From what I researched on Google Swedish women don’t often change their surnames once they marry. Can a Swede help me find her? I think it would be easier for a swede because Sweden has a lot of public databases, but I’m not sure how to use them. She’s always been on my mind on and off for the last 18 years. But recently I just realized that she was in fact the closest friend I’ve ever had. We use to talk for hours about anything and everything…sadly I have not found such a intimate friend since we broke up and I blocked her. Last time I saw her was on MySpace, I believe her profile was dated 2008. I knew it was her because the pictures were definitely her. I really miss her and am wondering can some Swede help me find her. Private message me and I will tell you all the information I know about her. It’s taken me almost 20 years to realize how special she was. Could a Swede please help me find her? I really hope she hasn’t died.

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The original was posted on /r/sweden by /u/Deep-Independence776 at 2023-08-16 02:44:49+00:00.

  • Dannebot@leddit.danmark.partyOPMBSvenska
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    Deep-Independence776 (OP) at 2023-08-16 03:22:47+00:00 ID: jwds8ot

    I hope so because the alternative is that I will have to go to Sweden which I can’t do at the moment because of my job.

    • Dannebot@leddit.danmark.partyOPMBSvenska
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      clutchkickmurphys at 2023-08-16 03:33:48+00:00 ID: jwdtkv2

      Doubt you could find anything more coming here then what’s Online . Tried searching on the hotmail she used on like Facebook?

    • Dannebot@leddit.danmark.partyOPMBSvenska
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      svenskgurka at 2023-08-16 05:09:17+00:00 ID: jwe3sy5

      Dude… I thought you only wanted to reconnect with her through chat and just catch up a bit. But the fact that you’re actually thinking about going to Sweden to find her is a bit creepy.

    • Dannebot@leddit.danmark.partyOPMBSvenska
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      FarPeopleLove at 2023-08-16 06:32:03+00:00 ID: jweb5c9

      That is really crossing the line. You can’t just show up live to seek out an online friend from 20 years ago… that’s kind of scary that you would consider doing that.

      Did you ever consider that maybe there is a reason she can’t be found online? It’s not hard to leave a Facebook profile up even if you don’t use it actively.

      • Dannebot@leddit.danmark.partyOPMBSvenska
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        Deep-Independence776 (OP) at 2023-08-16 07:12:22+00:00 ID: jweeg5m

        I use to live with her in Sweden until we broke up.She wasn’t just some facebook friend that I messaged. Why is that scary to you? I’ve reconnected with old friends online too. I’m thinking there could be a possibility she’s passed away, though perhaps she lost interest in social media. When I knew her she loved going online, we met I’m a MSN chat room.

        If you’re implying she’s hiding from me I really don’t think so because the last time we talked she said she still wanted to stay in touch even though we broke up. Never contacted her since. A couple times I tried to look her up on Facebook as I do for some old friends I have lost contact with but she never had an account. The last social media account she had was MySpace and that went offline over 10 years ago. Part of me thinks she might be dead as she had a brother that died by suicide and the suicide rate is higher in Sweden.

        I’m not just going to show up at her house. Though there really isn’t anything wrong with it…I know everything is about propriety and politeness in Sweden. I was more thinking about finding her social media or other contact so I could send her a message. I just want to find out if she’s still alive. If she’s doesn’t want to have anything to do with me that’s fine.