I met my girlfriend on an MSN chat room in 2005. We had a long distance relationship but when I went to Sweden to stay with her it didn’t work out. She still wanted to be friends but I was so hurt but the breakup that I blocked her from MSN Messenger and I blocked her email address. Looking back on it I regret it because She was the best friend I have had in my whole life. Unfortunately her old MSN Hotmail no longer works because Microsoft replaced it with outlook mail. I know her first and last name her approximate age within 2 years, her hometown and where she went to college. Unfortunately I can’t find her anywhere online. She has a fairly common name and I’ve checked every single social media site and can’t find her. I’ve Google her and used a swedish people finder called eniro and still haven’t found her. Though I found someone that maybe could be her. Problem is I don’t know her birthday. I only remember her being 2 or 3 years younger than me. Is it possible she married and changed her name. I hope she isn’t dead because I miss her and want to reconnect with her. What makes me think she might be dead is that she use to love going online and use to spend hours online everyday. From what I researched on Google Swedish women don’t often change their surnames once they marry. Can a Swede help me find her? I think it would be easier for a swede because Sweden has a lot of public databases, but I’m not sure how to use them. She’s always been on my mind on and off for the last 18 years. But recently I just realized that she was in fact the closest friend I’ve ever had. We use to talk for hours about anything and everything…sadly I have not found such a intimate friend since we broke up and I blocked her. Last time I saw her was on MySpace, I believe her profile was dated 2008. I knew it was her because the pictures were definitely her. I really miss her and am wondering can some Swede help me find her. Private message me and I will tell you all the information I know about her. It’s taken me almost 20 years to realize how special she was. Could a Swede please help me find her? I really hope she hasn’t died.

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The original was posted on /r/sweden by /u/Deep-Independence776 at 2023-08-16 02:44:49+00:00.

  • Dannebot@leddit.danmark.partyOPMBSvenska
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    slorpa at 2023-08-16 05:33:01+00:00 ID: jwe60od

    He literally said in a comment:

    I hope so because the alternative is that I will have to go to Sweden which I can’t do at the moment because of my job.

    About an ex from 20 years ago that he has no reason to believe is even interested in even talking to him, who is probably in a totally different stage in life.

    Heathly people move on from these things, not dwell about them.

    Also, you might wanna get your anger issues checked out too. ;P

    • Dannebot@leddit.danmark.partyOPMBSvenska
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      3 years ago

      Even-Mongoose-1681 at 2023-08-16 06:03:52+00:00 ID: jwe8r8m

      Never said it was a good idea. But he’s not on need of therapy because he misses a person.

      • Dannebot@leddit.danmark.partyOPMBSvenska
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        3 years ago

        slorpa at 2023-08-16 06:12:04+00:00 ID: jwe9gqd

        Not for “missing a person” but possibly for clearly not having a very rich life if he’s still hung up on this ex 20 years later to the point of feeling the need to go search for her in person, and going out of their way to try and “reconnect” .

        Look at the whole context, including him still thinking she was the best friend he ever had, all while blocking her out completely, and wanting to see her in person 20 years later. It’s not normal or healthy behaviour.

        • Dannebot@leddit.danmark.partyOPMBSvenska
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          Even-Mongoose-1681 at 2023-08-16 06:38:05+00:00 ID: jwebnfy

          I seriously doubt they’ve been living in total agony for the past 20 years losing sleep over this person. But rather that they remembered them and wants to know how they’re doing.

          You’re acting like he’s going to hunt the person down and kill them.

        • Dannebot@leddit.danmark.partyOPMBSvenska
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          RedCDevHA at 2023-08-16 06:50:09+00:00 ID: jwecn1o

          Yes it is, well it’s hard to imagine in which way he’s going about this and for how long he’s been searching. But I’m going with the benefits of doubt here.

          They way I understand this is that he has moved on from her but as anyone who had a best friend but lost them he obviously thought about her every now and then as you do. Now he decided to find her and as she’s Swedish and he’s not, he decided to ask r/sweden for some possible options he doesn’t know about.