I met my girlfriend on an MSN chat room in 2005. We had a long distance relationship but when I went to Sweden to stay with her it didn’t work out. She still wanted to be friends but I was so hurt but the breakup that I blocked her from MSN Messenger and I blocked her email address. Looking back on it I regret it because She was the best friend I have had in my whole life. Unfortunately her old MSN Hotmail no longer works because Microsoft replaced it with outlook mail. I know her first and last name her approximate age within 2 years, her hometown and where she went to college. Unfortunately I can’t find her anywhere online. She has a fairly common name and I’ve checked every single social media site and can’t find her. I’ve Google her and used a swedish people finder called eniro and still haven’t found her. Though I found someone that maybe could be her. Problem is I don’t know her birthday. I only remember her being 2 or 3 years younger than me. Is it possible she married and changed her name. I hope she isn’t dead because I miss her and want to reconnect with her. What makes me think she might be dead is that she use to love going online and use to spend hours online everyday. From what I researched on Google Swedish women don’t often change their surnames once they marry. Can a Swede help me find her? I think it would be easier for a swede because Sweden has a lot of public databases, but I’m not sure how to use them. She’s always been on my mind on and off for the last 18 years. But recently I just realized that she was in fact the closest friend I’ve ever had. We use to talk for hours about anything and everything…sadly I have not found such a intimate friend since we broke up and I blocked her. Last time I saw her was on MySpace, I believe her profile was dated 2008. I knew it was her because the pictures were definitely her. I really miss her and am wondering can some Swede help me find her. Private message me and I will tell you all the information I know about her. It’s taken me almost 20 years to realize how special she was. Could a Swede please help me find her? I really hope she hasn’t died.
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The original was posted on /r/sweden by /u/Deep-Independence776 at 2023-08-16 02:44:49+00:00.
RedCDevHA at 2023-08-16 06:58:54+00:00 ID:
jwedcshWhile I can agree there are some oddities on the post, I do think you’re reaction is a bit extreme.
We don’t how long he has been looking for her. While yes they might not be able to be best friends anymore as this happend a very long time ago that doesn’t mean she might think of him aswell. He didn’t talk about his own life afterwards more then he thinks of her every now and then and nothing really points he hasn’t moved from this.
The biggest thing that makes this post questionable is it being his ex but they ended it in good terms it seems he just didn’t want talk to her which is understandable.
animec at 2023-08-16 07:53:47+00:00 ID:
jwehp5oHe did write about his life afterwards, and indicated that he hasn’t moved on - he said:
That’s on top of all the other signs.