• OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml
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    3 hours ago

    It’s a bit of both. I can see these hobbies leading to a healthy relationship, but anyone who thinks the answer isn’t “hit the gym” is coping.

    (Btw I’m no gym rat, but this is a fact)

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      2 minutes ago

      anyone who thinks the answer isn’t “hit the gym” is coping.

      I’d put “hit the dermatologist” above it. Plenty of girls go for the skinny or husky builds. But blemishes are a universal turn off

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      Hitting the gym can’t hurt but it’s very low on my list of priorities.

      Being chill, open with one’s emotions, able to communicate reasonably, willing to help around etc are way higher.

      Usually being a woman helps too but life’s life.