Like, why is it so widespread, what causes it, what solutions are available, etc. I don’t really know how to ask this question so I hope I’m making sense

  • sunzu2@thebrainbin.org
    75·
    2 days ago

    if men display feelings, they’re seen as bitches by men, and weak by women (exceptions exist, but generally speaking).

    I don’t care if “alpaha” males think I am a soyboy, but you ain’t keeping a partner if she got the “ick”

    And most women get the ick over random shit including something that they might perceive as unregulated emotions.

    • xor@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
      4·
      2 days ago

      i agree… i just don’t think that’s an inherent thing in women and it’s a symptom of a sick society…

      • Bacano@lemmy.world
        3·
        2 days ago

        Good point, it could very well be. Sadly, it’s really hard to tell why, and which women will respond with it. I’ve never heard a woman alluding to it irl, but I have seen them respond in both ways.

        The ick is huge. The only woman most men can open up to without playing russian roulette is their mother (assuming a healthy relationship).